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Patrick J. Souder
  • In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be given to the Souder Children's Education Fund in care of Stockham Family Funeral Home.

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“Love and miss my man ”
1 of 53 | Posted by: Scott Souder - Kansas City, MO

“It truly truly saddens me to hear of Pat's passing! As kids Pat and I were the best of friends and I feel lucky to of had him in my life. I have...Read More »
2 of 53 | Posted by: Christopher Bruner - Winfield, KS

“Dr. Souder, Our thoughts and prayers to you and yours. May family memories of good times aid in bringing peace and comfort to all... Ray & Shirley...Read More »
3 of 53 | Posted by: Raymond Gibbs - McPherson, KS

“I am sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. He will be thought of often. ”
4 of 53 | Posted by: Amy west - Mexico city, Mexico

“David, Susan & family, we were so sorry to learn of Pat's passing. No parent should have to go through the pain you are dealing with. Our hearts go...Read More »
5 of 53 | Posted by: Brad & Vicki Giddings - McPherson, KS

“To the family of Patrick J. Souder: We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Patrick. I know he will be missed by you all. You are in our...Read More »
6 of 53 | Posted by: Dallas, Katie & Judy Redger

“I am sorry to hear about Patrick, I can only imagine how hard this will be for you all. You and your family will be in my prayers! ”
7 of 53 | Posted by: Wendi Swoboda (Stahl) - Union, MO

“Leave a condolence or a memory. ”
8 of 53 | Posted by: Wendi Swoboda - Union, MO

“I offer my deepest sympathy to the Souder family for their tragic loss of a great son and sibling. Pat was a great friend to me in our early years....Read More »
9 of 53 | Posted by: David Paul - friend

“My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ”
10 of 53 | Posted by: Heather Thiessen - Inman, KS

“To the Souder Family, I have so many memories of Pat and Aric when we were younger. It's really hard to think of those memories with out getting...Read More »
11 of 53 | Posted by: Josh Alexander - McPherson, KS

“Such a terrible loss of such a cool person! My love and prayers are with his family. Pat you had the best smile ever! May you live in glory with...Read More »
12 of 53 | Posted by: Audrey - Overland Park, KS

“I too have so many wonderful memories of Pat. I am grateful I could know him and call him a friend. My heart aches for those he has left behind. I...Read More »
13 of 53 | Posted by: Jennifer Eoff - Maricopa, AZ

“Dear David and Susan I am so sorry to read the Patrick had passed. Loss is never easy and the lost of a child is one of the worst. My family sends...Read More »
14 of 53 | Posted by: Karla (LIgon) Thompson - Wichita, KS

“Patrick will be greatly missed, and my condolences go out to his family, children and to his friends. I life is only partically lived when you die so...Read More »
15 of 53 | Posted by: Lisa Taylor - McPherson, KS

“Dear Souder Family, This gives me pause to remember all of the many memories of growing up with Patrick and Aric on N. High Drive. Pat was always...Read More »
16 of 53 | Posted by: Sarah Heidebrecht - Barnard, VT

“I was very shocked when I heard about Pat, I am truly sorry for your loss. I know that God is sufficient in his Grace and Mercy and will see you all...Read More »
17 of 53 | Posted by: Debbie Penrod James - Inman, KS

“I struggle to find words remotely sufficient to express how sorry I am for your loss. I did not know Patrick in his wilder years so I do not have...Read More »
18 of 53 | Posted by: Gary L. Price Jr. - McPherson, KS

“To all that loved Pat, I have not seen Pat in about 15 yers but the memories I hold are very clear and unfortgetable. We had so many good times,...Read More »
19 of 53 | Posted by: Brandi Robinson

“We will always keep fond memories of Pat in our hearts. We are saddened by your loss. Patrick is with the Lord and in that we take comfort. We pray...Read More »
20 of 53 | Posted by: Gary and Cher Clifton - McPherson, KS

“My heart was sadden to hear of your loss Pat. Especially since you were soooo young. It wasnt but the other week i saw you at the gas station. I had...Read More »
21 of 53 | Posted by: Courtney Starks-Cowper - KS

“I worked with pat 10 years ago and hung out with him a lot after work he is and will always be a good man will be missed by many. ”
22 of 53 | Posted by: Vanessa - KS - friend/ex coworker

“I am so sorry for your loss! You are all in my prayers! ”
23 of 53 | Posted by: Amber Cooley - Olathe, KS

“Shannon and family, my heart was saddened when I heard about your brother/son. Just know that GOD will hold you in the hollow of his hand, and gaurd...Read More »
24 of 53 | Posted by: Sonnie Martin - McPherson, KS

“Souder Family, I am so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. I have so many wonderful memories of playing at your house and in your neighborhood with...Read More »
25 of 53 | Posted by: Ashley (Burnison) Nelson - MO

“My Prayers to the family he will be missed... ”
26 of 53 | Posted by: Mick Clark - melbourne, FL

“I just wanted to let you know how very sorry I am for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family and his children. I will keep you in my...Read More »
27 of 53 | Posted by: Bonnie Krehbiel - McPherson, KS

“We are so sorry to hear of Patrick's passing. You are in are thought and prayers. Lean on each other during your journey of sorrow and pain. As...Read More »
28 of 53 | Posted by: Quentin and Cathy Stockham - MO

“Dear Sauder family,My heart breaks for family. I cannot begin to express to you my condolences. I will hold you and your families up to the Lord in...Read More »
29 of 53 | Posted by: Treva Prieb - McPherson, KS

“This whole family is amazing! I love all of you. I was welcomed, without judgement, into your circle eight years ago. I feel so much hurt for you....Read More »
30 of 53 | Posted by: Shawn Stockham - Mesa, AZ

“Dear Souder family, My hearts aches for you at the lose of Pat. He was so fiercely devoted to his family. He loved his boys more than life! I pray...Read More »
31 of 53 | Posted by: Cathy Wehrman - McPherson, KS

“One of the first true friends I ever had. Pat spoke softly, but his words were mighty. Knowing Pat made me a better person. My heart breaks for...Read More »
32 of 53 | Posted by: Lance Vernon - Salina, KS

“Patrick John, You will be missed more than you can ever think of. We always had such fun and great laughs when our little goup that we called family...Read More »
33 of 53 | Posted by: Jessica Klatt - McPherson, KS

“Our prayers are with all of the friends and family of Pat. We are truly saddened by this news. I've known Aric for as long as I can remember now and...Read More »
34 of 53 | Posted by: Sean and Jamie Simpson - KS

“My thoughts and prayers go out to the family as they have lost this wonderful man. I have so many memories of you Pat I can't express them all. I...Read More »
35 of 53 | Posted by: Allison Stenberg - McPherson, KS

“Dr. Souder, Susan, family and friends of Pat, I'm so saddened by the news of Pat's passing. Sometimes we sure don't understand ... and I can't even...Read More »
36 of 53 | Posted by: Louie Potts Peterson - McPherson, KS

“Pat was a wonderful man who will be truly missed by many. He made me laugh when i was having the worst of days,his smile and humor was very...Read More »
37 of 53 | Posted by: Tristin - mcpherson, KS

“My heart goes out to the entire Souder family. Losing a loved one too soon leaves a pain that will never heal. May Gods love surround you all and...Read More »
38 of 53 | Posted by: Cristy (Mitchell) Newell - OKC, OK

“We can't imagine what you are feeling, but we want to express our condolences to you. Please let us know of any way we can help you. My memory that...Read More »
39 of 53 | Posted by: mike and Tracy Garibaldi - KS

“Doc & Aric - I am soooo sorry to hear about Pat. It really broke my heart!! I can't imagine what the whole family is going thru right now. Keep...Read More »
40 of 53 | Posted by: Shelley Miller - McPherson, KS

“susan and family ...... words completely elude me right now. know i am thinking and praying for peace for you and your family to keep loving memories...Read More »
41 of 53 | Posted by: beverly erichsen - mcpherson, KS

“I will pray for the entire family during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss. ”
42 of 53 | Posted by: Katrina Bray

“My heart goes out to Patricks family!! Patrick lived his everyday for his boys...He was an amaizing father! I was truly blessed to be able to call...Read More »
43 of 53 | Posted by: Becca Horn - McPherson, KS

“Doc Souder and Aric and other family members, I am so sorry for your loss and pray God will comfort you all as only He can. May He strengthen you...Read More »
44 of 53 | Posted by: Robin Taylor - Hillsboro, KS

“For his boys -- My prayers are with you. Stay strong and hang on to mommy. ”
45 of 53 | Posted by: Sondra Enfield - Hutchinson, KS

“To Aric's twin, we miss you and love you dearly. From, Aric's wife. ”
46 of 53 | Posted by: Aric and Tara Souder

“To family & friends: I am so sorry to hear about Patrick's passing. I didn't know him all that well, only met him a few times. But he was always...Read More »
47 of 53 | Posted by: Deanie Robbins - Mcpherson, KS

“Pat and I were very close through highschool. We played basketball,kicked trees when life was hard, worked and enjoyed life together. He was always...Read More »
48 of 53 | Posted by: Tracy Copp - salina, KS - friend

“All Souder family and friends, my deepest sympathy to you all. Pat was a very happy guy and all my memories of him are good ones. Like playing truth...Read More »
49 of 53 | Posted by: Rodd Martin - Wichita, KS

“Leave a condolence or a memory. ”
50 of 53 | Posted by: Audrey

“Dear Doc, Susan and Family, Our hearts ache for you and your family. I remember when we first met Pat, so many years ago, back when he was in grade...Read More »
51 of 53 | Posted by: Larry and Jeanie Vernon - KS

“My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. You will be missed. ”
52 of 53 | Posted by: Christina Whitfield - McPherson, KS

“I am so sorry for your loss...i will always remember the fun times we all shared that later turned to crazy shenanigans that are now wonderful laughs...Read More »
53 of 53 | Posted by: Kelli Witte - salina, KS - friend


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Patrick J. Souder, 35, of McPherson, passed away Monday, September 24, 2012, at his home in McPherson. He was a cook at Applebee's Restaurant. He was a lifelong McPherson resident.

Pat was born on May 27, 1977, in McPherson, the son of David E. and Susan K. (Brandt) Souder. He attended McPherson High School.

Survivors include: sons, Caleb and Tristen of the home; parents, Dr. David & Susan Souder of McPherson, KS, sister, Shannan Souder of McPherson, KS, brother, Scott Souder and wife, Shannon, of Kansas City, MO, twin brother, Aric Souder and wife, Tara, of McPherson, KS, and sister, Kelli Peterson of McPherson, KS; several nieces & nephews, other relatives, and many friends.

A funeral service will be at 10:00 AM, Friday, September 28, 2012, at the First Baptist Church with Rev. Jim Keil officiating. Burial will be in the McPherson Cemetery. Visitation will be from 4:00 to 7:00 PM, Thursday, at the First Baptist Church with the family receiving friends from 5:00 to 7:00 PM.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be given to the Souder Children's Education Fund in care of Stockham Family Funeral Home, 205 North Chestnut, McPherson, KS 67460.